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Inspire & empower those living with grief (in both realms) to regain trust, self-heal and rebirth into the life they came here to lead.  
Working with my brother-in-Spirit, Christian Velten (who disappeared in Africa, 2003) to spread unity, joy & transformation.

Share our 'lost and found' story
Offer new perspectives on life & death
Encouragement to live as your true self 
Facilitate healing across the realms



After 15 years of suffering with ambiguous loss, anticipatory grief and complex grief disorder, I finally found out what had happened to my brother, Christian, after he went missing in Mali, Africa in 2003. He was only 27 years old. The truth was he’d been killed all that time ago and Christian was the one to tell me.
I am 'The Finder of Lost Things' - catalyst for transformation, Spirit messenger, medium, grief coach and writer. In 2017, after another unsuccessful search for Christian, I decided I needed to find a way to heal the trauma and pain that was making life so hard, so I stopped searching externally for Christian and I looked to ancient healing practices and philosophies to help me heal. After a personal spiritual awakening, I worked intensely with a group of non-physical entities who gently guided me, comforted me and introduced me to my abilities. If you’d told me that one day I’d find Christian in spirit form, retrieve his energy from Africa (his body had a river burial), regularly speak to him (via guided writing) and film his last few weeks of life on Facebook Live, with me channelling his energy (trance mediumship), I would never have believed you.

But I’ve experienced 'the impossible'. And after all the heartache and torturously painful journey, I - no, we - want to share our sibling story to show you that loss is just an illusion. No matter what the physical circumstances, loss can be healed with an honest 2-way conversation between the physical and non-physical worlds.

We invite you to watch this film - The Emergency Grief Kit (Film #1) - to begin your grief healing 

All three films are available on our YouTube channel

Hope kept me stuck in grief for far too many years… you need to take action. Take leaps of faith into the unknown, into change and into growth.
You will be caught; you won't crash land



Lost & Found:

Our award-winning first book is now available in paperback: The 8-Pointed Pathway to Healing and Growth After Loss. The lessons we learnt, to help you find your way forwards. Full of messages from Spirit and suitable for healing any type of loss: bereavement, broken relationships, lifestyle changes, shattered dreams...

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The Finder Of Lost Things™

Christian and I created a series of Facebook Live videos (2018-2020); now all available to view on our YouTube channel. The whole of our story is revealed - as it happened: including retracing his final steps in Mali, Africa, where he went missing. We recorded them to show that loss is an illusion and that with our sibling bond, still intact, we could share information, experiences, understanding and forgiveness. The early films also contain many general comforting messages from Spirit for those grieving.

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Our online grief-healing community is now open to join. Christian and I, and a whole host of others, will be there to inspire, empower and support you as you rise out of grief, fear and pain. Home of 'The RAISE Pathway' and 'Re-Connection Experience' group retreats. See 'Work With Us' tab for more details.

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